Guidance for Modern Life,
From an Older Perspective
Straight, unflinching counsel on relationships, business, and becoming the man you were meant to be. The kind of advice most men never had a father to give.
What brought you here?
Pick the side that fits. Both lead to practical tools, and to me if you need a real conversation.
Get clear on love, dating and marriage.
- The Modern Man’s Blueprint and The Modern Woman’s Blueprint
- The Relationship Quiz Series, for men and for women, from $1
- A one-to-one session with me
Build an online income, the practical way.
- The Digital Empire Vault and the Vertical Video Bundle, with resell rights
- Get both for $196 and save $58
- The Digital Creator Toolkit, $49.95
- A one-to-one session with me
Don’t work it out on your own.
A room full of people working on the same things you are. Start free, and take a seat at The Table when you want more.
The Community
Join the Ask An Older Man community on Skool. Talk with like-minded people, share videos and discussions, and see what the conversation is about.
Join FreeThe Table
- A live group Roundtable every two weeks, with me and other members
- A weekly email from me, on the topics that matter to you
- Everything in the free Community
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Some decisions need a real conversation.
One conversation, or three months of one-to-one work. Just you and me.
Book a Session
A private chat with me about the situation in front of you. Straight answers, no judgement.
Book a SessionPrivate Mentorship
- Two 1-hour chats with me every month
- A written plan of action
- WhatsApp access, with a reply within one working day
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PAUL’S PORTRAIT GOES HERE
The father figure a lot of men are missing.
I’ve been called a more measured Kevin Samuels: sound, logical advice without the insults. Married more than twenty years, old enough to have made the mistakes, and honest enough to tell you about them before you make them too.
This isn’t comfort coaching. I’m here to tell you the truth about the decision in front of you.